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Sworn to virginity and living as men in Albania

June 24th, 2008 · Comments Off

Qamile Stema, 88, a so-called sworn virgin, scolds relatives for not visiting her often enough.

‘Qamile Stema, 88, a so-called sworn virgin, scolds relatives for not visiting her often enough.’

IHT, Sworn to virginity and living as men in Albania:

“Pashe Keqi recalls the day nearly sixty years ago when she decided to become a man. She chopped off her long black curls, traded in her dress for her father’s baggy trousers, armed herself with a hunting rifle and vowed to forsake marriage, children and sex.

Had she been born in Albania today, says the 78-year-old sworn virgin, who made an oath of celibacy in return for the right to live and rule her family as a man, she would choose womanhood.

“Back then, it was better to be a man because, before, a woman and an animal were considered the same thing,” says Keqi, who has a bellowing baritone voice, sits with her legs open wide like a man and relishes downing shots of Raki and smoking cigarettes. “Now, Albanian women have equal rights with men and are even more powerful, and I think today it would be fun to be a woman.”

Sworn virgins became the patriarchs of their families, with all the trappings of male authority, by swearing to remain virgins for the rest of their lives.”

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